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I’m 19m. I currently go to college. I have two jobs, my own place. I’ve lost 150 lbs of weight recently and I have pursued more hobbies (chess, rock climbing, lifting, crocheting, reading, etc). I genuinely hate talking to women my age tho. 1/2
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Anonymous 4w

Then ur talking to the wrong ppl or ur not the vibe. I know lots of ppl who can talk for hours, u might just be boring

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Anonymous 4w

yea most girls have lots of hobbies. you are probably just framing it in a way that’s boring or you’re generally just talking a bit too much about yourself. or, there’s barely any conversation and neither are putting in any effort.

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Anonymous 4w

Don’t get me wrong I understand why women act the way they do. However I genuinely hate whenever I’m on a date and I ask someone if they have hobbies. And they don’t. The best I’ll get is that they draw. I understand if it’s a way to dismiss the question. But atp why tf are we even talking if ur not going to provide input. It genuinely feels like the only way to talk to women that’s worked for me is just to be a horny fuck. And I hate that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Most people don’t have the means to do more than one hobby that they genuinely want to do. Drawing is super accessible tho. Ik for myself I don’t like talking about what I do I prefer to talk abt what I think. I don’t like my job, school is stressful. I love nature but I hate the cold and I’m just waiting for warmth so I can swim. Plus u have a dog that can’t stand car rides. Barely getting to do my hobbies makes me feel like they’re nonexistent. I’d rather talk about likes and dislikes

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