Anonymous #2 1w

you have one bad interaction with a girl so you can’t go make another girl friend…?

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Anonymous OP 1w

Nah, just repeated bad interactions led to me then being now too scared of most girls. (I used to be in a toxic sorority)

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Nah it’s not being a victim, I have diagnosed anxiety so I legitimately get too scared. I know it’s a problem, so nice try trying to burn me, but I’ve already burned myself plenty

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Ur talking to someone that’s been in a mental hospital for suicide attempts, so I think I have a right to at least say that about myself… hope u have an amazing day tho!❤️

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Anonymous #2 1w

I had a friend who completely ruined my ability to trust people bc of repeated lies about some awful stuff (I won’t elaborate on that) but I have trouble trusting pretty much anyone and I used to be able to show affection towards my friends, but now I’m having trouble doing that now because I don’t want to get too close and get burned again

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it’s giving bully… ew

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im ngl u need to grow up and gain some empathy. they said they were in a toxic environment, stuff like that can take time to get over. it’d be different if they came in here talking like a pickme, but they literally never did that

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ur deadass a weirdo btw, they literally said they have diagnosed anxiety and had multiple suicide attempts

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Anonymous #8 1w

I do have girl friends though but I struggle to make new friends or connect with other girls.

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Anonymous #10 1w

You sound cool~🧕🏽

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Anonymous #6 1w

Ugh I’m sorry, this is a tough spot. There are girls out there that are like you and have the same interests!! I feel this too

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Anonymous #10 1w

you sound a little performative

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Shut up that’s such a valid reaction stop the bs you

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girl sybau you are literally the problem

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i strive to spread kindness and positivity

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Anonymous #10 1w

Girl, you think ur the only girl that’s into that?😭

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Anonymous #17 1w

yesyesyes i completely agree with this

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Anonymous #17 1w

also js 2 clarify: not blaming below ⬇️ mental conditions including depression anxiety and beyond is a whole different thing bc neurodivergent (underclass) & people with disabilities experience a level of alienation, ostracization, & marginalization from the neurotypical class (able-bodied, from which labor can be extracted). and also ‘bad experiences’ isn’t unique to this dynamic b/c u can have them with anyone so that’s not what’s concerning. and this comment isn’t about either of them

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Anonymous #18 1w

Nah it’s just a little harder to find other girls who are

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Anonymous #13 1w

ya you are

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Anonymous #13 1w

men absolutely do do that they just get over it lol. women like staying on the situation and holding grudges

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someone’s projecting 🫣

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Anonymous #8 1w

this is me lmfao a lot of girls can be very judgy towards girls who are neurodivergent and i’d rather be friends with ppl who understand me than judge me for being me

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Anonymous #8 1w

that’s a different circumstance though i think this post is about ppl who don’t make friends in a gendered way with actual internalized misogyny. that doesn’t apply to u and yeah the word should be “don’t” instead of “can’t” but yeah i agree as someone neurodivergent too

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Anonymous #2 1w

i promise ur gonna find your ppl ive also been admitted many times and isolated myself bc of my abusive friends 🫶 u don’t have to believe it today and you probably won’t—as ppl said the same thing to me before i went into remission—but in time you will see. it’s going to happen trust but it’ll take time and won’t be sudden/instantaneous. and sending sm love 🫶🫶. recovery also isn’t linear; and don’t feel shamed for a trauma response.

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Anonymous #12 1w

Real twin

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Anonymous #17 1w

i’m indian and my sister and her friend group which was mostly brown girls because we live in such a brown area was so so so toxic towards her and then her sorority did illegal shit to her and she developed a deep distrust. but she found people who broke that stereotype of us as perpetually toxic, competitive monoliths. people who are principled&consistent w/their morals are rare across every stratum including gender ethnic background etc. but we are out there. we find & care for each other.

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Anonymous #16 1w

Can you elaborate on how this is performative?

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Anonymous OP 1w

Sorry I like people who don’t hold grudges and match my energy since I’m a tom boy

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Anonymous #1 1w

Yea and that’s what I like they don’t hold grudges or bring it up to be petty they’ll make jokes but it’s funny

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Anonymous #3 6d

This is the attitude this post is calling out btw

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Anonymous #27 6d

What attitude the actual truth, I’ve had “girl” friends put me in comprising positions because they wanted to appease guys and cut them off after those incidents. Some women genuinely are too male centered, like I have woman friends it’s just a hassle connecting with more because of that.

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Anonymous #13 5d

Anyone who says girls are more drama are simply bad at picking who to be friends with. I’m also a girl who’s kinda a “tomboy” (I think that’s stupid tho) and despite my differences with many women I still find a way to get along because ik how to interact with people. Occasionally you’ll find a bitch but then you just don’t talk to her, doesn’t mean all girls are bitches and drama focused, you’re just choosing to interact with the ones who are

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Anonymous #30 5d

It’s less about the individuals, more about the setting. All girls school? Every girl will be all about the drama, even the ones who normally wouldn’t. Setting where it’s 50/50? Some girls will be about the drama, some won’t. Somewhere that’s male-dominated? Most, if not all, of the women will despise drama, and band together to survive. This is my personal experience, but it’s also backed up by research.

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Anonymous #30 1d

Yea but people are my school just suck sorry not sorry

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