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AITA 1w
AITA for judging my roommate? Context all she does is fail courses (she has no finals cause she dropped everything), do drugs, and fuck a bunch of random guys (in our dorm mind you) so much that she has STDs.
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Anonymous 1w

Unless she’s hurting you or others in some way then YTA. You could be concerned for her well being but nothing good comes from being mean and judgey. Either help or just keep your head down and mind your own business

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Anonymous 1w
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Anonymous 1w

NTA, get her thrown out however you can - don’t let people like that into your life, all they do is dig themselves into a pit and snatch up anyone that gets near it to join them at the bottom.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

What do u mean? she sounds like a loser. Besides that how is she supposed to keep her head down while this is happening in her living space its her room too.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

She’s clearly the asshole, get away from her if possible.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Yeah no I feel bad for her, but I got mad at her for bringing people over while I was cramming for finals and now she’s just being mean to me because she thinks I shouldn’t have said anything?? So I don’t know how to feel anymore 😞

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I was also changing and she brought guys in while I was changing, and she got mad at me after I said they couldn’t stay in the dorm. And I genuinely don’t think I’m in the wrong for that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Like I said if OP is getting hurt in some way (physically or mentally) then that makes sense for her to be upset and judgmental. Otherwise why bother? If I see a crackhead on the side of the road I don’t go about judging them, it’s not my life. But If the crackhead harasses me then they are dragging me into their problems and I have a right to say something

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Yea in that case she is invading your privacy and being inconsiderate which is wrong and you can’t let that slide

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