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AITA for canceling a first date after a guy asked for a ride to it
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Anonymous 1w

Nah it’s weird he didn’t mention that before

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Anonymous 1w

Yta.

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Anonymous 1w

Lmao no

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Anonymous 1w

What why?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

It was day of too

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Yikes

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Unless there was a legitimate reason

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Even if there was like I’m sorry I hate wishy washy people

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

It lowk turned me off from the whole thing is that bad

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Thats kinda wild. Personally i cant afford a car but literally every date ive been on has offered to drive me before thats ever come up. What is the issue with someone asking even if they can get themselves there?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

I personally would never have a stranger drive and I’ve worked very hard to afford a car so it just seems strange to me to assume someone’s willing to drive you without paying them for gas or considering their time

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

And then on top of that he responded that he should still be able to make it which felt like it was up in the air day of

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

And I’m a girl so like safety

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Why

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I mean safety sure but why call off the whole date? How was it an assumption that youd drive if he asked and said he couls still get there on his own?

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