Anonymous pink_file_cabinet67 1w

Hmm no how about we just break up with people why are we cheating.

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Anonymous #3 1w

I would tell me friend they would have to cause they should hear it from my friend or I would if they refuse to

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Anonymous #6 6d

No offense but you sound slow. If I saw someone steal a baby and didn’t report it did I steal the baby. Like technically no but Does that mean that I did the right thing also no

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Anonymous OP 6d

was that the question though? witnessing cheating doesn’t make you a cheater, it just makes you a morally questionable person. same as robbing 100k, same as witnessing a stolen baby. YOUR original logic is incorrect though

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Anonymous #6 6d

I didn’t ask a question. Yeah like that’s almost the point if you’re a morally questionable person what would make me ASSUME you’d cheat too it’s definitely a red flag. Idk why this is making you so mad it feels like common sense. If I saw someone steal money same thing wouldn’t be like that’s the guy for me lol

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Anonymous OP 6d

That would make me assume*

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Anonymous OP 6d

i don’t think you’re understanding the correlational contexts between the statements being made. you’re saying that if you know a person is a cheater and say nothing bc it’s not you’re place doing so, you are likely a cheater too.

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Anonymous #6 6d

that logic is flawed. what IS common sense: if you know someone is a cheater and say nothing bc it’s not your place, your morality is likely compromised. same as if you see someone rob a bank, same as a stolen baby. you are NOT a cheater, robber, or baby thief by proxy, just a morally questionable bystander

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Anonymous #6 6d

i think you’re reaching by assuming “iF yOu dOnT rEpOrT cHeaTeRs, yOuR MeSsEd uP mOrAlS AlsO mAkEs YoU a ChEaTeR” no… it just makes you an unreliable reporter to other people wrong doings

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Anonymous #6 6d

It’s like no one can read between the lines. Yeah if you have bystander mentality I don’t trust you. How would you like to me to say it to make the most perfect sense for you. If your friends have bad morals and I believe you are who you surround yourself with it makes me question you. I really don’t understand how it’s so complicated.

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Anonymous #6 6d

On top of that if I think you are morally off and are who you hangout. Then yes I’m ASSUMING you could cheat too and I’m not wasting my time it’s literally common sense lmao

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Anonymous OP 6d

okay hopefully you understand discernment. that if your partner has a cheating friend, you don’t give them hell and automatically assume they’re cheating on YOU too because apparently choosing to be uninvolved is a telltale sign of guilt!

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Anonymous #6 6d

almost as if someone who DOES snitch on their friends could cheat on you anyways bc the two have no correlation 😟 but hopefully your common sense doesn’t get you cheated on the way you think it will🙌

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Anonymous #6 6d

Ok good luck having a partner who is ok with their friends cheating. I’m not touching that one lol

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Anonymous #7 3d

like why are you more upset with the friend than the literal person cheating??

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Anonymous #7 3d

well i knew them in every case, we would all hang out in friends groups. even if you don’t personally know them, it’s shitty if you don’t say anything or at least call your friend out on their behavior. also if your friend is willing to hurt and betray someone they’re supposed to love what makes you think they wouldn’t do that to you?

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Anonymous #5 3d

just because YOU knew them doesnt mean thats always the case. ill call them out on their behavior but im not going out of my way to tell a random dude about his gf. as i said, they probably wouldn't even believe me and then im involved in that drama. no thanks

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Anonymous #7 3d

okay? i’m honestly confused as to what you’re trying to argue with me about lol. i get not going to the person and calling out your friends behavior instead. however i think if you continue to stand by them and be friends with someone who is willing to hurt another person so badly, then that makes you just as bad. i personally surround myself around people who make others feel loved and not like shit!!

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Anonymous #5 3d

wdym you dont know what im arguing about? YOU replied to MY comment lmfao. i can be friends with someone and not completely agree with everything they do. thats what comes along with being a friend. if youre only friends with people that wont check you for your bullshit, theyre not real friends

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Anonymous #5 3d

youre also not a good friend if youd be willing to drop someone because of one thing you didnt agree with

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Anonymous #5 3d

Exactly this I would hold my friends accountable and expect them to do the same to me. If they don’t care that I’m acting like that they aren’t my friend.

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Anonymous #7 2d

This is what I mean when I say I don’t get what you’re arguing about. This conversation is about cheating, not the situations it happens in or having different options from your friends. My point isn’t that friends have to agree on everything, it’s that people cheating isn’t just some tiny disagreement, it’s a reflection of who they are as a person. There’s a big difference between disagreeing over opinions and tolerating someone who is lying and hurting others with no shame.

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Anonymous #7 2d

You’re acting like a dropped a friend for liking pineapple on pizza or liking an artist more than another, when in reality I stopped being close to someone who had no integrity or respect for themselves. If you can’t tell the difference between the two, you’re just further proving my point. You don’t get what loyalty, respect, and accountability is in a friendship. There’s a difference between dropping someone because of a difference in opinions and dropping someone because they’re not a

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Anonymous #5 2d

good person.

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Anonymous #5 2d

Right you’re allowed to have different opinions, but watching someone be unfaithful to a partner of years or God forbid someone that they’re engaged to. It’s definitely making me look at them a certain way too. If they knew and didn’t care. I’m not saying run and tattle on Situationship or things are different in high school but as adults, we should know better and your friend should be doing better.

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