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AITA if I tell my RA about my neighbors being loud. My neighbors have been constantly loud, but they’ve only woken me up like four times around 2am. They’re just always loud, like always 😭
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Anonymous 3w

NTA genuinely people are tryna get shit done. Or maybe sleep. They can go be loud outside.

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Anonymous 3w

Note doesnt even need to be passive aggressive, just be genuine but do communicate with the neighbors first! Just a simple note under the door that says 'hey, love that youre vibing but you have woken me up a couple times now, please try to mind the noise between x-x from your neighbor'

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Anonymous 3w

I’ve slipped a passive aggressive note under my neighbors door because I was so done

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Anonymous 3w

As a RA, I agree with the note. They may be unaware of how sound travels, especially if you are in a freshman only building. If they continue to be noisy contact a RA.

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Anonymous 3w

Go to ur neighbors first!! It is the best thing to do

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Anonymous 3w

NTA tell the RA! It’s 2am, what do you mean loud

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Anonymous 3w

NTA!! my upstairs neighbors are the same way and we’ve already talked to them and they still do it- don’t feel bad to need your sleep!

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Anonymous 3w

Tell your RA!! Trust, as an RA, we are here for you!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

I agree with this. Most ppl will say “ ohh we didn’t know they could hear us. The neighbors didn’t say anything!” I would make a note of when you deliver the note and see if there’s any change.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3w

My upstairs neighbors were always super loud last year. I started banging my water bottle on the ceiling when they were annoying. It stopped them pretty quick

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