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My boyfriend has a “checklist” in his mind of things I need to complete or accomplish before he would propose to me…even though we live together. I don’t know what’s on the “list” and struggle having family and friends constantly asking when it’s coming.
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Anonymous 1d

Everything about this is wrong. If you’re not going to leave him I don’t want to hear it

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Anonymous 1d

please leave him. he either wants to marry you or not. i’d make a checklist to just to be petty but please also plan your exit.

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Anonymous 18h

Just have a conversation with him about it bothering you, don’t listen to this childish mindsets. Just because your partner is upsetting you, doesn’t mean you can’t talk about it or work through it. That’s what’s lost in younger relationships, people dip out to not get hurt when fighting past the hurst is what forget the strongest bonds. Good luck!

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