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AITA for getting mad when neither of my parents can take me to my surgery on Monday? I asked two weeks ago and they both said that they can do it. Had an appt today and my test results confirmed surgery for Monday and now they’re saying I never confirmed
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Anonymous 20h

For fucking surgery????? 😳 Bro that is some shitty parents you have. I’m so sorry. I cannot even imagine my parents not helping me with my medical issues.

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Anonymous 20h

Def nta. They literally told you they could. Also surgery is a big deal bro

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Anonymous 19h

You are not the asshole. Surgery is scary no matter what it is and it’s very clear you can’t drive after. A cavity being filled with a lidocaine shot? Fine that they didn’t come..SLICED OPEN SURGERY not fine. I want you to know that I was so anxious for my colonoscopy that I made my dad and my partner of 4 years come. Pictured is my dad after my colonoscopy and endoscopy whiped him out lmao

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Anonymous 17h

No, you aren’t, but your parents ATAs. I have the same kind. I’m so sorry. I remember I had an emergency appendectomy and no one picked up the phone. None of my family for 24 hours. I woke up from surgery alone. No one ever showed and I cried. It still sticks with me. Aren’t these people supposed to be our support systems?! You deserve someone to be there for you 🥺 or at least take you!! I wish you the best.

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Anonymous 17h

If my child was having surgery there is nothing that would keep me from that hospital

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