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AITA 3d
AITA for knowing that one of my friends liked me—cuz she was telling all of our mutuals about it while drunk and sent me an obvious love letter—and since I didn’t reciprocate those romantic feelings, I didn’t want to lead her on (we hung out and texted a-
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Anonymous 3d

It seems she stopped doing intimate things or things that may have been misinterpreted. I see it as making a hard boundary so you’re not uncomfortable. Or maybe she feels really awkward and doesn’t know how to act around u anymore? Either way u guys should talk this out.

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Anonymous 3d

maybe she just needs a little space? she might want to be friends still but needs time to get over it. i've been that friend before and it was hard being around that person constantly when i liked them but knew they didn't like me, and taking space away helped maintain our friendship and i eventually got over it.

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Anonymous 3d

Decent amount). So one day I called her and told her that I wasn’t sure if I was reading into it too much (didn’t want to make it awkward for her by saying I knew she had feelings for me) but that I wanted to maintain our friendship and hang out with her platonically instead of pursuing anything romantic. From then on, she refuses to look at me, text me, or talk to me even in mutual settings. She left our insta blend, unfollowed me from Duolingo (not insta) and yeh.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Part of me was initially worried I did something wrong but I genuinely can’t care anymore because she goes through great lengths to avoid me and my roommate/friends, who did nothing but be nice to her

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

I definitely thought that initially as welll and so I stopped reaching out too much because I didn’t want to push. That might be the case we’ll have to see but she’s just been very aggressive with it so I’m not too sure. Thank you so much for the input :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

It was also confusing because the week before it was revealed she liked me, she was constantly talking about this other girl she was crushing on and right after I told her I’m not interested she went back to her. But yes I might reach out at some point to clarify things and she how she feels as well

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