AITA on Sidechat | Had to have a talk w a friend who keeps bringing these incels around. They’re annoying and kill the vibe. He says I’m the vibe killer when I tell them to get a new joke- “dark” humor is hilarious but this is just “I hate women” and n-word over and over

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AITA 20w

Had to have a talk w a friend who keeps bringing these incels around. They’re annoying and kill the vibe. He says I’m the vibe killer when I tell them to get a new joke- “dark” humor is hilarious but this is just “I hate women” and n-word over and over

Anonymous 20w

I host btw and I share my joints. You don’t share weed w those kinds of guys unless you wanna hear some sob story about how a girl was mean to him in the 7th grade

Anonymous 20w

Not the asshole, your friend is an asshole, especially if you’re the one hosting and he knows you dont like them

Anonymous 20w

genuinely stop inviting him over until he gets the hint these dudes aren’t welcome, and maybe confront him about the humor if it’s still a problem? like directly ask him what *exactly* is so funny about hating women and saying the n-word and do not let him be vague or flippant about it. “you just don’t get it” “then explain it to me” “it’ll take too long” “we got all night” etc etc. make him uncomfortable and embarrassed

Anonymous 20w

That friend shouldn’t be a friend anymore imo 🤷‍♂️ I’d kick his ass to the curb immediately

Anonymous

#3 19w

Update: just might. He seems to be entering incel territory lately and our last talk didn’t go over well. He’s just so sensitive about being asked to chill and I’ve been told that he’s gone and outed our only trans friend in the group. I don’t think this friendship can be salvaged