you're not a bitch & NTA. the whole house had an agreement and they broke the promise anyway, and their reaction to your normal follow up is not okay. document everything plus receipts. also not cool to put into jeopardy everyone's living arrangement because landlord doesnt know whats going on.

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contact the landlord immediately. they are squatting

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You’ve gotta snitch, only way to work it out. Any way of handling gently went out the window when she skipped on rent

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You’re not the asshole but I will say you guys fucked up by letting them move in with the thought they can’t contribute to rent from the get go. When living with other people you have to have clear cut boundaries and expectations saying he needs to pay rent then letting him move in before getting that rent fucked you over. Not to mention since you guys all technically made an agreement you can’t just threaten to report them out, I’d make plans to get new roommates or at least ditch those two

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NOT the asshole. My boyfriend has 2 roommates, one roommate had their partner(s) live with them for about a month - it was CLEAR they had to all split rent, not 4+ ways… but from the existing roommates rent (the one w the partner(s)). They WERE expected to split water, gas, etc fees tho amongst everyone (4+). Talk with your roommates. It’s unfair to not split costs in that sorta situation.

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if she’s staying in your roommates room, not her own separate room, and if the roommate is still paying his portion of rent on their behalf then I think you are honestly being uptight about it. you deciding to move home for the summer knowing you would still owe rent for your space in the house was your own choice, and especially if the gf has been going through a hard time and HAD to move in there you could just choose to be kind about it.

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NTA, in this day and age (not to sound like a boomer) u can’t be fucking around with money like that lol

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How do the other roommates feel about it?

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No

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Yes, you’re the asshole

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I mean to be fair why does it really matter to you if you’re not there, I’d just ignore for now and if anything happens pretend you didn’t know about it since you weren’t even there

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