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Would it be considered disrespectful to my partner if my family friends kid (M), thats my age, that i met this past week on vacation and I (F) got drinks one on one till 2 AM and went to the beach after ?
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Anonymous 7w

Yes. Me personally, I would feel super suspicious about that.

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Anonymous 7w

no

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

But I would say “asshole” is a strong word for that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Just felt like AITA was best subyak to ask this question. Felt it filled the mold of the question i was asking. More so why i started with the disrespectful part.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Would it be disrespectful just one on one drinks but no beach after?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Personally the drinks feel more suspicious than the beach. But both would be a bad look to me if my partner did it. We both hang out with our friends one on one, but it’s a lot harder to get jealous (even if it’s unfounded) when they’re somewhere that’s not a common place for picking people up

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

both are disrespectful imo. sounds more like a date and less like seeing a family friend

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