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To all the people who say I have no trust or not fully invested in the marriage and that I’m banking on divorce if I ask for a prenup let me ask u this, why do you buy insurance? Why do you buy car insurance if you never plan on getting in a crash?
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Anonymous 30w

Prenups are basically insurance for marriage. So would you not get insurance on something that is statistically proven to have over a 50% fail rate

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Anonymous 30w

It should be universal. A given Failing to get one, is actual straight up gambling. And if placing bets on someone else’s marriage is incredibly inappropriate (I’m told that’s a pretty broad consensus), it’s crazy to think it’s ok to place a bet on your own when you can so easily just completely avoid that

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Anonymous 30w

I can’t get with anyone who refuses a prenup, why would you not want to protect yourself!?

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Anonymous 30w

I honestly think yall are beating a dead horse with #3 for absolutely zero reason, but another angle of this is that you get insurance because even though you may plan on driving safely, not everyone does, and someone ELSE may cause you to need to utilize your insurance. Likewise, perhaps you plan on eternity with your partner, but they could always become unloyal, or they go thru something that changes themselves as a person and they don’t want the relationship anymore. Anything can happen.

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Anonymous 30w

because you’re legally required to

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Anonymous 30w

I understand both sides of the prenup argument, but personally it just would kind of feel like my partner was planning to leave me one day. Idk my brain is weird. But I can see why they could be beneficial

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 30w

Legally requiring prenuptial agreements, I like it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 30w

i’m going on my second poop i poop

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 29w

You mean you’d feel like they were planning to leave you if they objected to one? Or if they wanted one?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 29w

If they wanted one

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