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I had a hysterectomy because my uterus was fused to my colon and they couldn’t be separated without removing the uterus, and I haven’t told my dad who wants me to have grandkids for him. AITA?
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Anonymous 8w

fuuuuuuuuuuck dat guy

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Anonymous 8w

NTA. No matter the circumstances, nobody should expect kids from you. You have autonomy

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Anonymous 8w

A man who *demands* kids is a cruel man. I'm so sorry. You will never be the asshole for a situation like this. Please remember that it is always your choice to have kids or not and removing your uterus for ANY reason is completely valid. You could've had a hysterectomy just to avoid having kids and you still wouldn't be an asshole. The fact alone that it was for medical reasons is enough to say that anyone who is mad that you can't birth a child is the asshole here.

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Anonymous 7w

are you the asshole for something terrible happening to your body out of your control? no

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

He wouldn’t care if I had it because I have cancer, he demands I give him grandkids

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