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I (18f) sleep with no bra in a loose fitting t-shirt, and my mom just yelled at me to cover up more before bed cause there are men in the house (my dad and brother). I said no cause I only dress like that in my room. For context I have 34 DD tits.
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Anonymous 6d

Lowk slap the shit outta your mom that’s sum wack ahh shi

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Anonymous 6d

this saying gives “blame the victim, protect the man” vibes🤮🤮🤮

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Anonymous 6d

If they’re covered I don’t see the problem. also your dad and brother shouldn’t be staring at your tits like that

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Anonymous 1w

i have 30DDD and my parents would never dare say that

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Anonymous 6d

i have 30G and i’ve never been told that and i have three brothers. and i do that all the time

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Anonymous 6d

Sorry that you have to put up with that. Your mom is waaaay too male-centered

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Anonymous 6d

ur mom telling you to wear a bra to bed is insane😭😭

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Anonymous 6d

Your brother and dad aren’t going to care unless they’re messed up. Just do it if a non-family member comes over.

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Anonymous 6d

wtf? me too. same size, wears loose tees, and has a brother and dad at home. my moms never said that. why is she worried abt that around you DAD and BROTHER of all people lmao

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Anonymous 6d

I told my dad a similar story of how my friend’s mom makes her wear bras around the house cause “there’s men around the house” and she’s maybe an A or B. He goes “that’s disgusting. There’s something seriously wrong with her mom”

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Anonymous 6d

my mom ALWAYS makes comments whenever i don’t wear bras (barely even a B cup girlie over here…) but whenever i do wear bras she comments on how i’m “finally” wearing a bra. i can’t win

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Anonymous 6d

you’re wearing shirt, I see no issue. If your DAD or your BROTHER have issues, it really sounds like they’re the ones that need to fix themselves. My guess is that’s not true tho and your mom is just trying to body shame you and wants you to feel insecure, which is shitty.

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Anonymous 6d

My mom says the same thing to me, so I just started wearing camisoles with padding to avoid the fight but stay comfortable as a 38DD. I don’t agree, but I rationalize it as her house, her rules and she always wears a bra

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Anonymous 6d

I’m the exact same everything, I do that and only underwear. Your Mom has issues, mine just says get shorts on before you come downstairs in the morning 🥲

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Anonymous 6d

Those are your family members. You should not have to feel shamed by your MOTHER of all people for existing and having a body. You are a human being. Your mother telling you to cover up because there are MEN ??? in the house??? Why do YOU have to modify YOUR BEHAVIOR because of the mere presence of OTHERS??? Makes no sense.

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Anonymous 6d

And the crazy part is nobody would bat an eye if you had 34 A like me lmao. crazy.

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Anonymous 6d

I hate to say it but no matter what you wear you’re going to be sexualized. Curvy women will always be put down for their body shape 😔

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Anonymous 6d

if the men of the house are normal about you as a family member this is not an issue and your mom needs to work out some stuff in her own head

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Anonymous 6d

your mom is fucking crazy, what?? i have 32 DD’s and my mom would never EVER say shit like this…

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Anonymous 6d

Best way to sleep (I am also a 34DD)

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Anonymous 6d

My mom would say the same thing to me but then go make me wake up my brother and he could sleep naked with no problems. Apparently I’m the only one who gets to be scarred for life from seeing his ding-dong

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Anonymous 6d

your mom is a predator enabler and/or the men in your house have problems. or your mom thinks they're weird when they aren't? idk but she's strange for this

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Anonymous 6d

does she not trust ur dad and brother to not sexualize you?? cause that's weird

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Anonymous 6d

As a 36 DD I feel you 💔 I just ignored my mom until they got divorced 😭

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Anonymous 6d

As a 34 G they can shove it their ur brother and dad they bets not think of u in any other kinda way besides a sister and daughter ur mom is weird

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Anonymous 6d

My mom always wants me to wear a bra (32 D, my dad left when I was 2 and I have no siblings) even though I think their uncomfortable and when I do she makes a comment about how much better I look wearing a bra.

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Anonymous 6d

Girl I’m 36DDD and I never been told some wack sh!t like that before, you’re literally just existing

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Anonymous 6d

MY MOM IS THE SAME WAY.

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Anonymous 6d

No

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Anonymous 6d

That’s so fucking weird as a 32DD I don’t wear a bra to bed and no one cares. Your mom needs a reality check…

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Anonymous 6d

weird asf! i’m like 40ddd and never once has my mom yelled at me abt shit like this. she’s TA 100%

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Anonymous 5d

I’m so used to my small catholic school that this initially read like a hmu. As for that size, my condolences on the back pain. You are fine so long as they do not regularly come into your room unannounced. However you will be held to a higher standard of how chaste you should be regarding how you dress due to your cup size. The bigger they are, the harder people judge.

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Anonymous 6d

a man wrote this

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Anonymous 6d

Does she have more of a problem with jiggling or you nipping out?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

30G is crazy

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6d

Maybe she thought your brother or dad were checking you out 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6d

and still that problem should be addressed with them not OP. it’s not OP’s fault if the men in her family are perverts. and low key you’re just as weird as her mom for saying this

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6d

I’m trying to understand the mom, not defend her…

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6d

mom is misogynistic…

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

Your poor back 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

where do you buy your bras pls help🥹

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 6d

My mom agreed too ^

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

I end up with a lot of sister sizes just bc of cost but third love is great

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Anonymous replying to -> slipperyslimeball 6d

slap her with the Ds

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Anonymous replying to -> #34 6d

WAIT I’M ALSO A 34 DD 😭😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #30 5d

That’s a real thing?

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 5d

I know right, the bigger your breasts the higher the standard.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

unrelated but i was a 30G or H but i got a reduction and do not regret it and i have always worn a big shirt and underwear to bed and my mom will just tell me to put on shorts if someone else is coming over (i.e. grandparents or a repair guy)

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Anonymous replying to -> #36 4d

That doesn’t sound unreasonable

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4d

nah it makes sense but she doesn’t make me wear a bra 🙏

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