AITA on Sidechat | Is it weird to ask to meet people at a neutral location for a first date??? I've had 2 guys now ghost me because I suggested we go to a restaurant or cafe instead of going over to one of our places. I don't feel like that's such a huge thing to ask..

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AITA 15h

Is it weird to ask to meet people at a neutral location for a first date??? I've had 2 guys now ghost me because I suggested we go to a restaurant or cafe instead of going over to one of our places. I don't feel like that's such a huge thing to ask..

Anonymous 15h

not weird! they are trying to fuck that’s why they ghosted

Anonymous 11h

Meeting in public is always best for the first meeting, meeting at someone’s residence never ends well and can be dangerous especially for a woman

Anonymous 11h

never go to a private place for a first date, it’s dangerous. sorry they keep ghosting :( but much better to be safe then sorry

Anonymous 7h

Not weird at all, and definitely the safest option. Some guys are just dumb and think with their dick and not their brain🙄

Anonymous 7h

they ghost you because theyre tryna get you there to fuck not an actual date stand youre ground and continue suggesting cafes and restaurants dont ever allow them to get you to their house

Anonymous

#1 15h

Seriously? I swear I always bring up being ace early on and it's like they just ignore my aversion to sex

Anonymous

OP 12h

As another ace person, people are so weird about aces and half of the guys I’ve dated think I’ll change my mind or something