NTA, she should respect you and your friends’ traditions tbh and the fact she isn’t is weird af

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NTA. That’s actually super cool of you to respect your friend group like that, and I’m sorry your gf is feeling insecure about it to the point she’s threatened she can’t be apart of the one event

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And it isn't like she can't hang out with my friends, we all get together sometimes as a group and invite our partners. I love that she wants to get closer with my friends but right now to them she is just my gf, and it really wouldn't be fair to invite her and not my friend's boyfriends simply because we're a gay couple.

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it's normal and healthy to spend nights with just your friends. her not being okay with that, at least the way it sounds in the post, is controlling.

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girls nights are almost always partner free nights. if she wasn’t apart of the group before yall started dating then it makes sense to it be friends only

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NTA, might wanna change the group bylaws to a “No Partners” rule instead tho. Just to keep it unbiased

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