AITA on Sidechat | AITA: My roommate speaks on the phone for hours a day (3+) at an above average volume, all times of day (mostly afternoons and nights around 7-9). She calls in her room, so I feel bad asking her to be quieter, but I can hear her whole convo. What do i do?

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AITA: My roommate speaks on the phone for hours a day (3+) at an above average volume, all times of day (mostly afternoons and nights around 7-9). She calls in her room, so I feel bad asking her to be quieter, but I can hear her whole convo. What do i do?

Anonymous 3w

Ask her to be quieter

Anonymous 3w

take a video of you in your room while she’s on the phone, then later ask her to please be quieter. if she gets upset or defensive just show her the video.

Anonymous 3w

I would chin in the conversation yell out then she definitely relize your listening to then she be quieter

Anonymous 3w

this is me too let me know when u get good advice. My roommate loud as HELL tho

Anonymous 2w

As a loud phone caller have a convo and say how the walls are thin and her voice carries and that you can hear everything and don’t want to. text her or like knock or sm when she’s loud to ask her to be quieter. It’s a curtesy thing and for 3+ hours that’s a long time to hear all that. Considering your sharing a space not unreasonable to ask her to be quieter

Anonymous 2w

you could ask her to be quieter, but that’s not very likely to make a huge difference anyway. Might be a better idea to ask her if you could agree on a set of quiet hours where neither of you would be noisy.