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AITA for refusing to talk to my grandfather? He refuses to apologize after making racist comments about my girlfriend and then insists he did nothing wrong and that I should apologize for for bringing her to Thanksgiving.
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Anonymous 2d

HELL NO stand by your girl. I’m a black woman and I left my ex after he refused to defend me saying “but they’re family. My uncle is old you can’t change his mind”

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Anonymous 2d

You are NOT ta. No offense but your uncle definitely is. Apologize for bringing HER to Thanksgiving is actually insane😭 If anything, HE should be excluded.

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Anonymous 2d

Apologize for bringing YOUR girlfriend to a family gathering! FUCK TO THE NO! G. PA needs to get on this century!

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Anonymous 1d

Maybe unscrew the handrails to the steepest stairs in house

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Anonymous 2d

NTA

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Anonymous 1d

Def not TA. Keep standing on your beliefs. Poor behavior should not be tolerated, regardless of age

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Anonymous 1d

Thank you for sticking up for her!

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Anonymous 19h

You’re a good bf fr for sticking by your gf. Before we split, my ex’s mom had said something that offended me, and instead of immediately realizing it was wrong, the FIRST thing he said to me was “well you know she didn’t mean it like that”…💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

Oh I left Thanksgiving immediately with her. My dad is on my side, mom said that seemed excessive but isn’t defending her father.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

You said grandfather and I always forget that most of our grandparents were alive when racism was just casual. He’s gotta get with the times because WOW. I’m so sorry this happened. Hopefully he apologizes, that’s not ok.

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