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Okay so my birthday was a couple weekend ago and my coworkers got me a cake. My whole family cancelled it was rough but i still had the one thing that was my cake. My roommate didn’t even wish me a happy birthday and ate it all. When confronted he(cont)
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Anonymous 4w

called me a bunch of names and told me i was acting like a child when all I said was “By the way that was my birthday cake you ate next time could you just ask permission before eating my stuff.” Since then they have boldly labeled every item they own, taking the bathroom all morning, and slamming stuff and using the fact that they are men (i am a woman) to boss me around. AITA for telling them not to eat all of my stuff?

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Anonymous 4w

NTA. Wild power trip with a hint of sexism, especially if you explained how rough the day was. I’d be concerned about your living environment too bc if they act that dramatic over a minor problem, that’s a ticking time bomb to a major problem.

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Anonymous 4w

Happy birthday!

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Anonymous 4w

that’s legitimately insane. It’s one thing to share or borrow food, but a cake?? And the entire thing?? What in the fuck would ever be the reasoning for why that would be ok? You’re within your rights to completely chew him out over that, and even demand he pays for it or something, that’s not at all cool

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

it’s just gotten to the point i don’t really feel comfortable because they are constantly slamming cabinets and doors

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Wait for them to do it again, record them for evidence and try to make a case on them. After that, whether you bring it to your local police, landowner for your apartment you share, or just someone who can help you, you need solid proof to have action be done against them for it. Once you get that, I’d say report them

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

ty 🥹🫶🏻

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

People can’t live together unless they’re fucking. Drop the roommate and get a long term romantic partner.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

his reasoning was “Well it was on the counter and there was a slice missing already”

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

i’m moving in with my boyfriend soon :)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I guess if you’ve left things out to share before, that would kind of make sense - to take one piece, not the entire rest of the cake.

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