Sidechat icon
Join communities on Sidechat Download
AITA? It seems like my friends want me to show up for them. But for the past 3 years only like 2 people have shown up to my birthday events. I don’t even go all out anymore. I understand that people are busy but these are last minute cancellations.
upvote 30 downvote

default user profile icon
Anonymous 3w

Im sorry but your friends are shit

upvote 11 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 3w

I let them know weeks in advance and the only reason I know they aren’t coming is because I follow up. If I didn’t they just wouldn’t come.

upvote 5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Sounds like you need new friends. Make sure that you’re also putting the effort in because maybe they feel the same way.

upvote 9 downvote