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aita for telling my boyfriend i would break up with him if he got a motorcycle? it’s nothing personal toward him, it’s just that motorcycles are actual death traps. i see a future with him, and accidents happen. am i being selfish?
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Anonymous 9w

not at all. it’s selfish for someone to correct you to go thru that trauma just because they have a death wish. they don’t realize the trauma starts the day they get it not the day they die. it’s not worth staying up late wondering if that night will be the night. so no you are in no way and never will be the asshole.

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Anonymous 9w

Nope. You have boundaries and if he doesn’t respect it I’m sure you know how to go about the situation. God bless❤️

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Anonymous 9w

You’re not an asshole for being worried and upset about it but it is a little selfish. I would hope that if this is what he wants he knows and understands the risks and is prepared to take all the proper safety precautions but in the end it’s his life. You’re nta if you break up with him tho that’s intense potential trauma and if you don’t want to risk that that’s ok

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

expect** not correct lol

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