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AITA for college my parents immigrants (obviously they are). The context was explaining why students at my school have so much more experience and i was explaining that it is because im first gen. They got extremely mad even tho i said it neutrally
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Anonymous 1w

no

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Anonymous 1w

absolutely not. if your parents cant see a viewpoint from you, someone who has lived in a culture in a culture more than then, and cant accept you explaining it to them then thats called narcissism.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

My mom may be an enabler. My dad was screaming still through the house after i left. She coddled him, as always. He may be a narcissist tbh. Its a long story but he is like this a LOT and if i accidentally upset him everyone is affected

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

My mom was calling me and begging me to apologize to him. Usually he never is the one to apologize and I am left to clean up a mess he made. Hes pretty demanding, and has a lot of addictive characteristics

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

you have to be the one to put the foot down and tell your mom you wont do it. you cant be responsible for your parents’ relationship!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I did and i ended up saying no but she ended up threatening money and food lol

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