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AITA for not wanting to go on vacay with my childhood bff because her boyfriend is toxic and possessive asf and needs to message her every 45 minutes and accuses her of cheating if she isn’t responding?
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Anonymous 3w

Absolutely not, and its not your job as her friend to carry that emotional strain tell her absolutely no I will not hang out with you if your boyfriend is going to behave that way, not just for this trip but in general

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Anonymous 3w

Even when he isn’t physically there, he is constantly present through the phone. It’s just smothering and drains the joy of the moment because she basically has to remote babysit him

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Anonymous 3w

how about you be a supportive friend and go get a job while your at it❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> elegantspoon47 3w

Being a supportive friend means telling your friends when their partner is expressing unhealthy behaviors over them❤️

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