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AITA 19h
My bf broke up with me, but my friends (that were friends with me first and longer mind you) “had a feeling”/ knew about it beforehand and I’m angry they didn’t even give me a heads up. AITA
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Anonymous 18h

Nah it’s not their place to do so. Imagine they had a feeling you guys were breaking up and they went to you and put that idea in your head. You’d probably preemptively break up just to not get hurt when you never knew for sure if that was going to happen. Breaking up is normal, interfering in relationships is what breaks friendships.

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Anonymous 19h

Tbf if they told you earlier you’d get mad at them

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

I don’t think I would. I’d appreciate them looking out for me and for not allowing me to look stupid and humiliated when it did happen

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

I guess that’s fair. But it’s still humiliating being the last one to find out about something especially when those friends were people you trusted

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

Think about it like this, if you were going to break up with your boyfriend and they found out. Would you want them to go and spill the beans? No, they would lose your trust and possibly the whole friendship. That’s the same dilemma they went through. It sucks but sometimes in life you can’t avoid those hard situations, you just have to work through them. Hang in there, I’m sure they are not making fun of you.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

I feel like most people would but it’s good that you wouldn’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

I appreciate your take, thank you :) maybe I’m blinded by hurt and heartbreak

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

Understandable, you’ll be ok though. Time heals, no matter how corny that saying is, it’s true 😂

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