Anonymous #3 5w

More like, if Im just being nice and tryna lighten the mood while they’re stressed and they choose to lash out on me then come back like 30 mins later and apologize

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Anonymous OP 5w

Yeah I’d say you’re the ass here, just because if I’m really stressed and someone keeps trying to joke around “lighten the mood”, sometimes it just stresses me out more and I’ll snap. Then when I’m calmer I can process that was rude and can go apologize. I think you should understand that them snapping at you when you do that means you shouldn’t do it anymore

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Anonymous #4 5w

No, you misunderstood. I mean that I’ll be nice OR make A lighthearted joke. I don’t continually joke in order to force a positive reaction from them. I’ll ask “How’s ya feeling?” Or reference something that made them laugh the other day.

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Anonymous OP 5w

Two main issues i sense 1. High likelihood of you not obeying your own rule (pay attention, youve likely “snapped” without meaning to or noticing) 2. Seeing relationships like this is. Not great. If someone told me they did this itd be a red flag. It forces people around you to walk on eggshells and can create a really weird dynamic. Unless you are peachy and kind ALL of the time, im gonna call this hypocritical.

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Anonymous OP 5w

From experience, yeah that kinda thing can get annoying esp if said person is ignoring very clear hints that im not in the mood. Some people are indeed shitty and quick tempered, but if this is something that happens to you often, it may be worth asking yourself if youre missing things.

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Anonymous OP 5w

yeah idk about this one, personally if that happened, my apology would also include a conversation about not doing that again in some form. Other people have boundaries too, and they shouldn’t get crossed by you to the point of them “snapping”, especially on 3 separate occasions with time in between to discuss what was uncomfortable.

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