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AITA 4w
My long distance bf goes to college close to home & still live with his parents. I HATE THEM SO MUCH. I have not heard from him ALL DAY bc they took away his phone. They take it for BREATHING wrong. I love him but AIRA for wanting 2 breakup bc of them?
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Anonymous 4w

Grown man and they took away his phone?

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Anonymous 4w

I’d say stick it out if you think he’s the one but if you’re just vibing I personally would dip. It’s only gonna get worse imo. They’re his parents now (and forever), but they could potentially be your in-laws. Run bae.

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Anonymous 4w

you arent marrying him, youre becoming one with him- which includes sharing his parents. as #2 said, those in-laws could ruin your life. run for the hills, quickly

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Anonymous 4w

This used to happen when we were like 16. Lowkey caused us to breakup cause we’d go so long without being able to talk

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Anonymous 4w

If it’s long distance and talks paths don’t align then it’s prolly destined to break up unless u make it work. But NTA

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Anonymous 4w

my ex gf's parents were like this, narcissist alcoholics to be specific. i promise even if you think hes the one, you have to consider that his parents will be in your life once yall marry, if they act like that, it will tear your relationship in half

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Anonymous 4w

Break up w him fr fr

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Anonymous 4w

GET OUT MY HEART TS IS NOT FOR YEWWWW

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

They take away a lot of things. For context though we’re 18. They took away his phone once for a week because he didn’t remind his 12 yo brother to do his chores

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Uhhhh NTA get outta there queen

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Yo? 😭 that’s on his parents for not reminding his brother. He ain’t his brothers parent 😂😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Imagine your parents punish you for no reason and take away your phone and then you get it back a weak later and ur gf dumped you 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 4w

I BROKE UP WITH HIM GUYS!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

That’s sounds mes I meant to sound celebratory

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Damn I feel bad for you now-ex. Hope he can find a girl mature enough not to hold his parent’s discipline of him as a TEENAGER against him. Dear lord.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

No it’s okay I don’t hope he finds better. There were other issues. Turns out his parents didn’t take his phone this time. It was much much worse

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

I had assumed they had because I’m so used to this happening. Woke up to a hey girl text

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

I don’t mean to come off as rude, I appreciate your insights even if they were harsh. Before the cheating, I had been dealing with that stuff for 4 years. Sometimes we wouldn’t talk for a week bc of them. He’d miss birthdays and anniversaries

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Alright OP this changes a lot lmao, now I gotta be harsh the opposite way bc why tf did you deal with that shit for 4 years 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

I was silly 😞

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Proud of you girl, as you should and so sorry he did that but on to better things!

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