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My roommate keeps taking my stuff without asking. It’s not like I care if they use it or not but it’s the fact that they don’t ask before using stuff when all I’ve done is tell them to ask I don’t wanna bring it up/ dont know how without being super rude
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Anonymous 2w

Girl be rude it’s not okay for someone you barely know to be taking your stuff

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Anonymous 2w

Maybe just say, I don’t mind sharing my stuff but I need a heads up before you do or you could say, hey there’s been a few times my stuff has been missing when I need it, please ask me first so I know

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Anonymous 2w

your roommate is being rude and you are completely justified in requesting permission before use. You can even say you posted here and show responses if they seem confused. Sadly I think some people see what they can get away with until a boundary is put up. So please put one up love

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Anonymous 2w

You aren’t being rude, it’s your things. I don’t like others touching my things so I tell them that. If they do it I remind them that I don’t like it. In your case you just want them to ask. So you would say th same thing but just ask

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