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AITA 1d

AITA for creating “emergency plans” to burn bridges with everyone I love and care about before they ever get the chance to hurt me? I mean, I literally have these plans for everyone. My parents, siblings, friends, girlfriend, etc.

Anonymous 1d

I don’t know if that’s being an asshole per se but I can definitely see why someone may have a negative reaction to finding something like that out

Anonymous 10h

You’re not an asshole but it sounds like there’s a lot of hurt in your heart. Pray you find peace

Anonymous 7h

Honestly i do the same thing. But i possibly have bipolar and my birth giver ruined my sense of trust at a very young age. Mental health stuff also runs very strong on her side of the familyz

Anonymous

#1 1d

Yeah, and I wouldn’t blame any of them for it either. I do this sort of thing to protect myself from being hurt. I don’t know why I feel like any of them would though since none of these people have, yet I can’t really trust anyone. No matter how badly I want to build a connection with the ones I love, I just keep myself apart from them.

Anonymous

OP 1d

I understand. I’m sorry I can’t help you more, but you can at least find comfort in knowing that it doesn’t automatically make you an asshole

Anonymous

#1 1d

Yeah, that does make me feel less like an asshole.