NTA, and it is a big deal. Idk your relationship with your roommate, but if it’s someone you don’t know well or y’all don’t get along, that’s def an invasion of your privacy. They should have at least asked if they wanted/needed to use your things

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NTA I would take the remote with me next time if that would stop her

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nta and honestly spending in your relationship with her, i would report her ass to the RA

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