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AITA 1w
AITA for not wanting to reconnect with an old friend. Like dont get me wrong their sweet and all but the back when we were close i was going through shit and was a very different person and now things are different and life is actually good.
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Anonymous 1w

NTA. Im in a similar situation, but ultimately you don’t owe them anything, and you should do what you want. Feel free to message me

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Anonymous 1w

In that scenario u should’ve just put it in ur pocket without asking, asking imo feels a little strange to them probably

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Anonymous 1w

Like i feel bad bc they haven’t done anything wrong but everytime i speak with them, i legit start to feel stress from the shit I was going through at the time i knew them. Like war flashback type shit. Idk they reached out to ask to catch up and I’m respectful with my texts but i just can’t be more personal without feeling like i have to be the same person i used to

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Sorry could you reword this, I’m a bit lost

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

If you wanted to put it in ur pocket I wouldn’t think u need permission, in my opinion asking for permission makes it awkward

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