
NTA! Your doing what a good friend does! You recognize a pattern and are telling them its a bad one. If they dont listen dont be friends with them. So many times because i was friends with one person i lost respect from others. Now im no longer friends with them i feel so drama free!
A preference is saying “I don’t date women who do onlyfans” but just straight up saying “I don’t respect women who do only fans” isn’t a preference. It’s misogynistic and dehumanizing, you still treat people with respect bc they’re human beings regardless if you disagree with them
More like someone who likes to drink having no respect for bartenders or bar owners but continuing to go back and expect quality service from them. You can disapprove of how people make money, but it’s hypocritical when you are someone who is using their services and funding their business.
No the drug addicts having no respect for the drug dealers is a much better example. These people don’t deserve respect for exposing themselves all over the internet, they know they’re preying on the weakness of others and trying to squeeze money out of them. It’s a low low profession and while I don’t hate them they don’t gain or automatically attain any measure of respect for doing that
And the weak people who pay subscriptions for this to even be a job and contribute to this profession deserve respect? Then ig ur analogy is even more accurate cuz majority of society hate and don’t tolerate drug addicts so by ur logic the person paying for this “low” profession don’t deserve respect at all for contributing and taking advantage of ppl who just trying to make a living u don’t have to agree with the way they make money to understand it’s hypocrisy
They don’t, and they don’t receive any, that’s my point. People who watch don’t deserve respect for watching, and the people who put out that content don’t deserve it even more so. It’s a negative thing, it exists in society and everyone has to accept that, but that doesn’t mean we should glorify it. My analogy is accurate because it works out how even you acknowledge it does, people don’t get praised for watching that content.
Also I’ll add that the op mentioned their friend didn’t want to continue “talking” with girls who put out that type of content, I might be wrong but I got the sense that when they said “talking” it was as in the “talking” stage before going out on dates and not just completely ignoring the person mid conversation. It’s okay to have preferences, and it’s ok to not want a potential partner to have their business all over the internet, regardless of whether you watch it or not.
Weakness of others? Come on. You act like everyone has an addiction and they’re hopeless to fight it. It’s grown adults with credit cards. People can decide for themselves to never use porn, to never go on only fans. That is a choice people can make. And over 90% of people are capable of doing that. They don’t want to.
Exactly my point, it is their choice, it’s not a good choice and they don’t receive any measure of respect or praise for it, that attitude is what’s also applied to the people who sell their body online, except for a vocal minority of people who attempt to glorify such disgusting behavior.