Anonymous OP 17h

currently present was me, roomate D, and roomate D's bf. she knew it was roomates D's cat without even asking. she didnt need information about that and said u will be written up bc its not esa approved. Yes we know its against the rules but we were in the process of getting him esa approved and he was injured so the safest place was the dorm. RA then left and we were like wtf? she came back and said i noticed u have a guest over (roomates d' bf), how long has he been here bc he cant be sleeping over for more than 6 nights in a row in 1 month which he hasnt ever. thats when we knew it was roomate A who 'snitched' bc she hates roomates d's bf even tho he's literally done nothing to her. Roomate D confronted roomate A.

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Anonymous OP 17h

Roomate A admitted to snitching but only abt roomates C and never said anything abt cats or told the RA names of roomate c. but how did the RA know about the cat b4 the had came to the door when there was no signs and how did she know details that only roomates would know? and the RA was saying abt the guest the guest thing, roomate A always accuses roomate d and roomate d's bf always sleeping over every day when he hasnt and how would roomate A know when she claims that she never hears anything and also is always out at night and barely at the dorm? worst part is that roomate d and A were friends but now w this roomate d feels betrayed bc this is not the first time roomate A has caused issues w her. I am closer w roomate D and C bc ive hanged out w them way more and literally roomate A is never at the dorm and if she is she locks herself in her room.

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Anonymous OP 17h

Not to mention roomate A gets mad if they use her dishes and dont clean them bc shes vegiterian (i get that but they DO clean them?) but uses ALL my mugs. she will use a mug and leave it in her room so she doesnt have to clean it and will just get new mugs until shes used it all up and dump it in the sink for someone else to clean. roomate d and c bought their own pans so they dont have to use hers and literally roomate A now uses their pans too and doesnt clean them?

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Anonymous OP 17h

She also doesnt use the water machine bc she doesnt want to fill it up if its out of water so she will use my brita thats already causing clutter and hasnt been cleaned. With the water machine its heavy so trying to refill it i have to pull it out but her spices container is a big huge circle thing and she also has a big protein powder box there so it literally abstructs me from refilling the water machine. she also leaves her molded fruit on the counter and after a while she will throw it away to get more fruit and mold that. We have cabinets and a whole fridge. idk why she doesnt use them? bc her stuff is just cluttering everything. we have put the big spice metal circle in a drawer where she knew so its not like we hit it and she just would put it back to where it was and creating clutter and making the water machine harder to fill.

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Anonymous OP 17h

one time roomate C was taking out the trash and roomate A grabbed three full trashbags one from her room, two from her bathroom and told roomate c to also take these out as well.

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Anonymous OP 17h

i also brought a 1.5 Qt cookie monster ice cream tub cuz it was my bday coming up and one time when as a 4 we all hung out like during move in week i mentioned they could have some for that day but she took it as a sign that she could have it whenever and on my bday when i brought a friend it was all gone, i didnt even get to have any of my own ice cream. The next week i brought a new 1.5QT cookie monster ice cream for myself for special occasions and she saw me putting it in the fridge and shes like "oh i loved it so much i was addicted" I and i mentioned yeah i got a new one bc someone had eaten it all and was sad bc it was my ice cream for special occasionsm. With the new tub, me and roomate d had like 1 cup each. Next day it was completely eaten through by someone.

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Anonymous OP 17h

We also have our own individual cuboards and apparently roomates d and c have said they have seen roomate A going through my stuff and taking them. I dont mind them using my stuff but i would like a text of her asking bc i hate when i go to my stuff and its all gone. i eat what i crave on that day so if i dont crave something that week i wont eat it but the next week i do crave it so i go to make it but its all gone cuz someone ate it before i could even tho its mine?

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Anonymous OP 17h

the washer and dryer is connected to my room and its very old so its pretty loud, it sounds like u threw a bunch of metal objects in it and thrashes arount. I mentioned it to her and how its annoying when im trying to sleep and shes like yeah but then proceeds to do heavy loads every day and every week. and she even does more loads in the day as well, and i know its not roomates d and c's load bc when they did it, it wasnt loud at all and dont do it at night if its not urgent.

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Anonymous OP 17h

i am an easy going person and i have never complained to roomate a abt these things and maybe i should cuz cuz its my right and also its great to communicate issues or it can turn into this but i swear some of these i think she has to know that what she does can be super annoying and i shouldnt have to say it? these things can be considered small so i didnt think i should bring it up without a bigger issue present. plus i believed in giving someone grace and i do give grace but its starting to become where my stuff is being used w out regard and w so much of these issues its just built up, not to mention this isnt all the things shes done.

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Anonymous OP 11h

just tell her she isn’t invited anymore and lowkey ask to see if you can switch rooms for the spring semester

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Anonymous OP 6h

i love my other roomates tho! we all love each other but cant trust roomate a :/

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Anonymous #1 6h

dannng

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Anonymous OP 1h

i’m sure the three of you can go together and talk to the RA and RD

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