Him saying his opinion is the only one that matters is odd, but you shouldn’t be in a relationship if you hate yourself, having insecurities if ok but you shouldn’t hate yourself. I wouldn’t date someone who hated themselves either because you should love yourself wholeheartedly before loving someone else

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idk i get how he’s trying to encourage u to feel better but also it’s kinda selfish of him to not consider how deeply it’s effecting u ur allowed to have opinions esp about yourself he can’t control every aspect of a person down to their literal thoughts. that said i think it’d also important like #2 said to work on ur self confidence but ur bf isn’t really helping in ways that most partners would to lift the other up

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it’s important to work on ur self-image and see urself in a batter light. my bf’s love for my body influenced me to have more love for my body. but for him to say his is the only opinion that matters is weird asf- ur body is UR body and thats possessive and huge red flag

7

Yta

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