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Is it actually rude to put someone's name in your contacts as "[First Name] [How You Know Them]"? I was deleting old contacts and my brother saw and asked about "[Name] GEO Lab" who was my lab partner from a geology class I took 2 years ago.
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Anonymous 9w

Nah I think it’s kinda funny actually

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Anonymous 9w

I mean for friends and family I actually give them fun names or at the very least a pfp. But people who I don't text regularly just have their first name and how I know them so I know who I'm talking to. I don't think that's rude so please let me know how y'all see this.

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Anonymous 9w

No I always do this. I usually add it to the company name section but it also helps keep everything straight when I don’t fully know a person yet. If I don’t have a contact picture sometimes I won’t always remember their last name lol

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Anonymous 9w

Nah I be doing this Usually with emojis

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Anonymous 9w

That’s the only way I can id people sometimes

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Anonymous 9w

i have an ambulance emoji next to people i met in the psych ward 😭

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Anonymous 9w

I love doing this and sometimes I keep them even if I become better friends with someone because it’s silly to think they used to just be “Jack neighbor”

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Anonymous 9w

my roomate’s name is followed by “from writing” because that’s when we meet LOL and it’s still that in my phone and we graduated over a year ago, now it’s a long running inside joke

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Anonymous 9w

i put who i know them in the job part

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Anonymous 9w

why would it be rude? it's not like they know about it anyway

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Anonymous 9w

Absolutely not! For one, it’s your contacts. And two, it would be a lot worse if you didn’t and have a conversation thinking they’re a different person. I have way too many people with the same name. The ones who I didn’t do that with are going to get deleted as after so many years of not using it they can’t be that important 🤷‍♀️ Maybe that’s rude, but I didn’t employ this strategy until a few years ago.

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Anonymous 9w

I do this all the time, especially when I’m quickly trying to add their info. Bonus points if there are multiple people with that name already in your contacts

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Anonymous 9w

It’s actually no one else’s business how you have it stored in your personal device.

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Anonymous 9w

My best friend is in my phone like this because she shares the EXACT same name as someone else I’m friends with

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Anonymous 9w

I always put it in the notes section

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Anonymous 9w

No, and for me I know a lot of people by just their first name and I know a lot of people by the same name (lots of Ava’s, Sam’s, Will’s, etc.) so it helps me keep track, especially if we’re not all that close or don’t message frequently

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Anonymous 9w

like 80% of my contacts are like this. even some of my close friends are still in as [Name] Michigan from when i first met them

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Anonymous 9w

I do that, especially if they match a contact I already have

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Anonymous 9w

i like to use emojis like if it’s a lab i’ll use 🧪 or for work i use 🌶️ next to their names

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