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I have exams coming up and I told my bf I’d be busy studying and I would talk to him later. I said this at 12 and didn’t text him again til 9 but her was upset that I did tell him I’d take that long (lit told him I’d be busy) soooo AITA?
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Anonymous 1w

No, you told him youd be busy and youd talk to him when youre done, you cant predict how long studying is gonna take 💀

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Anonymous 1w

Def NTA but I can see why he’d be a bit upset. If I were him I’d only be “upset”because I’d would’ve been worried

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Anonymous 1w

Not in the wrong at all! Exams are serious and he knows you'd be gone for a while especially if you were clear on that. NTA

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Anonymous 1w

i think neither of yall are in the wrong, from one side u were busy and u told him u would be busy, and from his side u didnt text him for basically the whole day, even when u likely took a studying break or a meal break at some point

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Anonymous 1w

Nta, but maybe try to be more clear from now on that it’s going to take a long time and not just an hour or two.

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