NTA it’s important to set boundaries for yourself

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NTA that’s too soon imo

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I'm going to my girlfriend of 2 weeks thanksgiving. But we've also known each other for a little while. definitely nta, boundaries are important and if thats how you feel, thats how you feel.

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NTA, don’t most guys dread having to meet their GF’s family?

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nta. i don’t think it’s too early but a holiday is defo not the time to introduce them for the first time

63

That is wayyy too soon to meet family

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NTA

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nta 🙅🏻‍♀️

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Nooooo it took me like 2-3 weeks to even meet my boyfriend’s family. Relationships are all about boundaries. It’s been 4 years and we still haven’t spent every holiday together just because we need family time!

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NTA at all, if anything this gives you a chance to soft launch and get them excited to meet him! My fam is super tight knit and I have cousins that didn’t invite a boyfriend of like 4-5months because its still new and you wanna make sure you take your time with out pressure. Also it’s still ok to have moments with your fam without an S/O even if you have one. idk about u but it’s important that he wants to spend time with his family as well! that was a lot but yeah NTA at all imo

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Yeah if a new partner comes around during thanksgiving or Christmas that means they’re here to stay definitely not happening after a month

11

No , he needs to be solid with you for at least a year before even considering it 😭

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NTA. I got drug into my bfs families Christmas after 3 months and it was awkward.

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Your choice, and you understand how long you’ve known your partner beforehand too. For me, my family has known about my partner for the past three years (but they were only a friend then). However, I was still invited to her family Christmas within the first month because everyone wanted to meet me and she was super proud to show me off. And, there are a lot of relatives that wanted me to also go on their trip driving to another state the next day! You might ask your family what they think too.

5

Did he want to go? I would be hype if my girl said that I could fade (I love her very much).

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NTA

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NTA

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NTA cause your boundaries are your boundaries but I personally would want to meet someone’s family after dating for like 2 weeks

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no he thinks the same

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Dang I met my bfs family a week after we met…

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I ain’t even dating this dude but we been nonstop hanging for a month and he’s got me at his folks house tomorrow

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You could at least invite him for dessert

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Yeah

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