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Who’s the AH here? Part of me feels like I am (and if I am, I just want perspective), but, I can’t get over this weird feeling in my chest.
12 upvotes, 12 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in AITA. "Who’s the AH here? Part of me feels like I am (and if I am, I just want perspective), but, I can’t get over this weird feeling in my chest."
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Anonymous 3w

This was an opportunity to prove that you’re worth more to him than his social hang ups and he repeatedly didn’t take it. I don’t know how old either of you are but that’s pretty childish

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Anonymous 3w

He’s allowed to dislike it but the way he’s making it obvious is kinda rude. And he’s acting like it’s some sort of sin. I’d figure out what his problem with drag is if i were you

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Anonymous 3w

Just because he “wants to be supportive” does not mean that he IS BEING SUPPORTIVE.

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Anonymous 3w

People are allowed to like and dislike stuff. It doesn’t always have to mean something terrible. Have you asked him why he doesn’t feel positively toward it?

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Anonymous 3w

Here :>

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Yeah, it was just a matter of him thinking the way drag performers dress/present themselves is too much and that he feels the whole concept is just too ridiculous

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I explained in a previous comment why he doesn’t like it, I hope it helps

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Oh it doesn’t show up I probably have the og commenter blocked

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Find my new comment

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Oh break up with that loser he didn’t have to call something you’re interested in ridiculous

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

I don’t know if the ages help at all, but he just turned 22 a couple of months ago and I’m 19 but about to turn 20 in a couple of months

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

EXTRA UPDATE ON THAT so he’s liked every single post I’ve made on Instagram since we’ve been together (and I post a LOT) and the drag post was the ONLY ONE he didn’t like. So, I may be petty for this, but, I decided that I’m not sending him the video of the drag show if I decide to go through with it (cs this whole incident killed my confidence on it tbh). If he asks why, I’m telling him straight to his face that it’s because he’s made me feel unsupported on this on so many fronts.

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