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AITA for refusing to attend my sister’s wedding after she announced she’s wearing my late mom’s wedding dress, the one she promised to bury with me because Mom said it “looked better on me”, and calling me “morbidly selfish” for being upset? like holy shi
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Anonymous 4d

Sounds like all of y’all need therapy.

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Anonymous 4d

Huh? She promised to bury you with your mom’s wedding dress? Why do you want that? Regardless though, you’re not dead. There’s no reason you can’t still be buried with the dress after your sister wears it for her wedding. It does sound like you’re being selfish.

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Anonymous 4d

Go to your sisters wedding girl. You can still be buried with the dress and if it makes her happy to wear the dress, let her. It’s her special day and it’s her mom too. Nothing says you both cant wear the same wedding dress, especially if it belongs to your late mother. ❤️

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Anonymous 4d

are you planning on dying the day your sister is getting married? why cant you still be buried in it just because she wears it for one day?

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Anonymous 4d

I might be missing context but it doesn’t seem like she’s keeping the dress she’s just wearing it for the day? Seems reasonable to want a piece of your mom on your wedding day even if the dress looks better on you. And you can still wear it it after this. I think it’ll be sad twenty years from now that you didn’t go, to the wedding. Her wearing the dress might be something you can come to terms with

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Anonymous 4d

bro yall need help if you really get mad over these typa stuff. it’s never that deep and ITS YOUR SISTER.

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Anonymous 4d

Not at all

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Anonymous 3d

Now why the hell would you want to be buried with your dead mom’s wedding dress??? That is so weird and creepy, you gotta move on and let go at some point.

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Anonymous 2d

ultimately i think yall came out of the same cooch it’s a dress i fear

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4d

also just because your mom said it looked better on you doesnt mean youre completely entitled to it

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

ugh ikk i probably should. just feeling misunderstood rn

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4d

people have issues with their family all the time

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

well yeah dealing with death isn’t easy…

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

i just have a really close connection with my mom, imo closer than my sister does

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

I’m not talking about that, I’m talking about the weird obsession with some fabric drawing a wedge how it is. It’s weird.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

the “fabric” has deep meaning to me.. pls don’t come here just dismissing my feelings it’s not helpful

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

I get it but it’s your sister. Sometimes you gotta compromise, it’s her wedding it’s her special moment and ik that dress has special meaning to you but it’s your sister in end not like a friend or smth. It’s the same thing as giving your chicken nuggets to your sibling when we were kids. hope you get what I’m saying!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

It’s a dress. Y’all are being really weird with it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4d

no yeah i get it, sometimes it’s hard to get over things and see the big picture but you’re right

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Anonymous 4d

op posted on a public forum and is mad that people think shes being dramatic 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3d

not mad! i’m thanking you for your helpful opinions. they were very useful! have a great day!

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Anonymous 3d

still dont understand the point of this post? youre still getting what you want and your sister is also getting what she wants. just because shes not as close doesnt mean she cant have anything sentimental to your mother

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Anonymous 3d

so what do you gain from crashing out on an app called yik yak? did you have a personal experience with a sister you felt wronged you? like you can think i’m selfish but you’re raging way too hard rn im kinda concerned

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3d

Seriously, it’s weird as hell. 💀

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