Beautiful, you two were never compatible the universe thanks you for acting on your boundaries. May the cosmos look favorably on your romantic life

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Kiiiinda hard to say cause there’s so little extra context but I’d say yeah you probably made the right move. Someone who refuses to do something so simple after being asked probably wouldn’t be right for you

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Probably NTA because if he can't clean up after himself then he needs to go. You're his partner, not his mom

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And it’s YOUR PLACE , he can’t respect someone else’s space ?

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If you set the boundary, you did good. On the other hand, when I host anyone, I clean up afterwards. It's my home, whoever is visiting is a guest. For more personal relationships, that may be different. Ultimately, it's up to the individual.

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