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AITA My gf is mad at me for being connected to random girls on LinkedIn. I refused to remove them and apologize. I explained it’s a business website and not like social media. I reassured her that I love her and only want her. Am I the asshole?
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Anonymous 1d

Nah, it’s LinkedIn not snap or insta or something. Having more connections helps make your profile look better and it’s not like you’re gonna use LinkedIn to try and cheat on her that would be literally so insane. Having someone as a connection on LinkedIn is like the furthest thing from an actual relationship with that person. I don’t even know half my connections. If her insecurities are so bad that she can’t deal with this and not read into it, then that’s her issue to deal with, not yours.

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Anonymous 1d

Hi as a woman I would never expect my boyfriend to not connect with other women on LinkedIn. Please find someone who is truly supportive of your career because I can’t imagine what your future will look like when you mention having women as your coworkers when you talk about your job. Find someone with an ounce of self confidence and trust in your partnership, seriously.

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Anonymous 21h

Yes, you should have thrown your entire phone into a campfire when you started dating her. Who else’s are you trying to call? It better not be your family for help.🤨

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Anonymous 20h

No way nta that’s a networking site for professional development and is never expect my bf to remove his connects. Sounds like a her problem being insecure and I’ve never even heard of a request like that before. What’s next you can’t talk to your female employees at work? Nta. That’s something she’ll need to deal and come to terms with

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Anonymous 22h

Well, does she have guysbon hers? Ik just flipping it isnt the answer but ussually helps someone hos being emotional stop and see reason

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Anonymous 1d

That's 100% a her problem. If she's that insecure, she's got some bigger issues to address within herself.

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Anonymous 1d

No, she would still be ta if it was insta that’s red flag levels of controlling

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Anonymous 14h

Oh my gosh it’s LinkedIn… you’re fine, she needs help

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Anonymous 23h

Yta

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

No disrespect but she sounds like she needs professional help dealing with her issues because her expectations of you are far from reasonable and her lack of trust in you is a serious problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

None taken. Thank you for this I think it was what I needed to hear.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

You’re welcome, good luck with this bro

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Thank you so much

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 19h

Omg i suck at typing

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 16h

why are you, as a man, trying to maintain a connection with your mother, a woman??? or god forbid, your grandmother, another woman??? that woman is such a slut even her children have children

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 13h

For what, dating this girl?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 12h

He absolutely is NOT the asshole. I’m a woman in a healthy relationship, I would not have any issue with my man having female connections on LINKED IN (literally wtf). This is absolutely insane to me. It’s all about trust and clearly she doesn’t have that. Check her out, make sure she’s not projecting on u bc she’s doing some f shit 🙏

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 11h

Thank you this is very helpful

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

Absolutely, hoping for the best man, keep us updated if anything goes down ‼️

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 10h

Going to talk to her after work tonight. So we will see how it goes

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 9h

😂

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