Anonymous #2 44w

If you’re actively talking about how much you hate a certain group, even if it’s your own race, that’s more than just a preference. A “preference” doesn’t mean constantly insulting people who don’t fit it.

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Anonymous OP 44w

Regardless it’s about a group they are apart of … I am a black woman dating a white male and I talk about how I don’t like black men and some black women .. there’s nothing wrong with that and it’s not a red flag at all .. it’s not like you’re trying to get validation

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Anonymous #2 44w

I’m also a black woman with a white man and being a part of a group doesn’t magically make you generalizing and insulting a group—esp to people who aren’t in it ok. If you’re not ALSO saying good things you’re projecting trauma at best or stigmatizing people, reinforcing stereotypes, and possibly fetishizing others at worst. You don’t have to be a red flag to yourself but I’m not dating people who do that kind of stuff and I’d definitely be questioning their motives for dating me if they did.

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Anonymous #3 44w

so corny

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Anonymous #4 44w

Work smarter not harder king 🫡 and if you ever do date outside your race you’d probably be doing it for the right reason

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Anonymous #3 43w

valid

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Anonymous OP 43w

Nah people be racist I’m sticking with my kind I don’t think there is a “right reason” to date outside of my race

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Anonymous #5 43w

Did the shoe fit?

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Anonymous #2 43w

Wait until you find out women can also be misogynistic even though it’s their own gender😭

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Anonymous #8 43w

i think there’s a difference between having bad experiences and forming your opinion off of that versus judgements based on internalized stereotypes and hatred

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Anonymous #3 43w

So you like low t bitch made men?

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Anonymous #17 43w

Holy racist

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Anonymous #8 43w

yeah no same, my worst experiences have been with people in my own race that have been incredibly xenophobic towards me, now i instinctively just steer clear in terms of dating them, but it’s not like i hate my own race, i just wouldn’t take talking to a guy from my own race seriously (i mean it still happens sometimes, but it’s not smth i actively pursue)

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