AITA on Sidechat | Am I the asshole for dumping my girlfriend after I went with her to file a police report after she was the victim of sextortion? She still cheated on me. And while I helped her go to the police. I still didn’t want to be with her anymore.

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AITA 17h

Am I the asshole for dumping my girlfriend after I went with her to file a police report after she was the victim of sextortion? She still cheated on me. And while I helped her go to the police. I still didn’t want to be with her anymore.

Anonymous 17h

Was she a victim who also cheated on you or do you view her victimhood as cheating

Anonymous 17h

The way you worded this makes me think that you believe that her literally being taken advantage of is cheating. She shouldn’t have been blackmailed like that, and it would be even worse if it was someone that she knew who was doing that to her. I understand that it’s a lot to take in but at the very least go to some sort of couples counseling.

Anonymous 2h

Nah! Cheating is cheating! Fooook I wouldn’t even have helped them… i would have laughed at her face like: “ LMAOOOO THATS WHAT YOU GET YA CHEATING HOE! 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂😂”

Anonymous

#1 17h

I’m guessing she cheated on OP by having consensual sex with an asshole, and the person she cheated with held it against her/threatened to tell OP to try to keep the sex going, she came clean to OP before the other person could and OP helped them report it but is still breaking up over the original consensual cheating that led to the ability to be sextorted. Or at least that’s what it sounds like to me

Anonymous

#3 17h

If the cheating was a separate situation then no you’re not, and if she cheated and whoever was sextorting her did it for that reason, then I also don’t really blame you for dumping her but they could’ve just told you

Anonymous

#2 17h

If that’s the case here then I’d say NTA

Anonymous

#1 17h

What happened was that she was sending intimate picture’s to someone she met online . Then they blackmailed her demanding two thousand dollars. So she told me. The blackmail wasn’t okay. But her cheating wasn’t okay either. I hope the people extorting her pay for what they did to her. But I feel betrayed that she willing sent pics to someone else.

Anonymous

#3 17h

The cheating was before the extortion. She was sending intimate pictures. Then got blackmailed. So she told me. I don’t blame her for being extorted. But I do blame her for sending intimate pictures to someone else. The blackmailers are responsible for their actions. She is responsible for her actions.

Anonymous

OP 16h

Oh okay then your fine mb

Anonymous

OP 16h

Then no, nta at all. It’s actually very telling how despite the betrayal you still made sure she wasn’t alone in the reporting process and insured she got as much justice as possible (online blackmail cases are insanely difficult to prosecute but you still made sure it was reported and that’s very noble)