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AITA 11w

AITA if I keep talking to him. Like I’m 5’4. The tall girlies need the tall men… but I like him. I’m very conflicted in my soul of souls. This has been like a sub-core value for me.

19 upvotes, 17 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in AITA. "AITA if I keep talking to him. Like I’m 5’4. The tall girlies need the tall men… but I like him. I’m very conflicted in my soul of souls. This has been like a sub-core value for me."

Anonymous 11w

Girl, just let him reach the top shelf for you, it’s ok. The tall girlies will be fine. If you truly like him, his height shouldn’t be an issue.

Anonymous 11w

Girl what

Anonymous 11w

There’s plenty of tall men out there. If you like him then don’t create a moral dilemma where there isn’t one! Have fun and I hope your relationship is everything you want it to be and more 🤗

Anonymous 11w

YTA

Anonymous 11w

Girl, this is not really a thing to be hung up on, there are plenty of people to go around everyone. Follow your heart, height shouldn’t matter if you really like him

Anonymous 11w

Aye you’re giving the short dudes hope

Anonymous 11w

i hate when guys say "u funny"

Anonymous 11w

i’m 5’1 and my bf is 6’ 😂

Anonymous 11w

As a tall woman, tall men who want short women aren't going for tall women. You're passing up an opportunity for literally no reason.

Anonymous 11w

Usually it girls complaining of short guys, but this is interesting. Also who tf cares that much about height. If you like him then keep talking to him? Height should not be that big of a factor.

Anonymous 11w

nta, it's considerate of you to think of that but you like him for more than his height so just continue talking to him

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Anonymous 7w

Why do I “need” a tall man is a crazy take. Height shouldn’t be a checkbox imo. Partnership should be about how they add to your life and make you feel. Objectively people don’t even differ than much in height, it becomes clear if you look at it based on % difference in height.

Anonymous 11w

You don’t need allat. BUT if you like him and y’all click, WHO CARES. You don’t need to not get with him due to something superficial that you don’t even dislike.

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Anonymous 11w

I’m so glad I’m not alone in this feeling.

Anonymous

#6 11w

No literally

Anonymous

#8 11w

Also lowkey on the objectification? Is he not a person with feelings? Why are we treating him like just something you can give to someone else when you two are the ones who like each other? Height is so irrelevant when two people hate or love each other.

Anonymous

#8 11w

Yeah that was something else that rubbed me the wrong way. The „let the tall girls have them“ combined with the height statement read like commodification almost. Just as a tip OP, for future reference don’t tell someone you like that they’re interchangeable, either explicitly or implicitly. If you view them that way, it’s highkey a red flag, regardless of if you say it or not

Anonymous

#14 11w

U funny

Anonymous

#4 7w

After consideration, the moral dilemma hasn’t been there for a bit. There were so many TikTok’s in my underclassman years where tall women were angry with short girls for “taking all the tall men” so I made it a point to not “take something that wasn’t or shouldn’t be mine.” In these four weeks, I’ve gotten over that. So thank you for that. I still view men as interchangeable and I have no idea how or even if that’s going to change.

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