Anonymous #1 1d

I’m still in shock honestly. He cared more about what a cashier may think than my wellbeing! wtf!!!

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Anonymous OP 1d

He’s an asshole you deserve better

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Anonymous OP 1d

Bc 1. He isn’t prioritizing your well being 2. Even beyond that, he’s immature for worrying about being judged. If I saw a guy buying menstrual products I’d assume it’s for a gf or something and wouldn’t think about it

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Anonymous #4 23h

EXACTLY. He’s such a dick, it was my last straw.

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Anonymous OP 23h

I asked my bf (cuz I’ve never really been in the situation where I need him to pick it up) and he said he absolutely would get them for me and the only way it’s “gay” is if it were pads for himself for whatever reason Find a better man girly you deserve better

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if he's like this about something as minuscule as period products, i can't imagine how he would deal with anything remotely more serious which is something you need to think about in regards to a relationship

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Imagine it’s his daughter and mom is either out of town or not in the picture. This is the kind of man that would send his daughter into a CVS by herself with his card while he waits in the car. Ask me how I know

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Anonymous #11 20h

It’s not a matter of money, we had a shared budget for groceries and toiletries. Pads were ALWAYS on the list. Why couldn’t he pick them up with the rest of the groceries? I had to pick up his adult diapers when he got into a sporting accident!! And condoms?

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Anonymous #12 20h

He was worried people would assume he was a masc lesbian. I don’t know 🤦‍♀️.

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Anonymous OP 19h

then yeah he’s weird asf lol. one thing if maybe it was just random but if yall are atp of budgeting together then. just put the groceries in the cart bro

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Anonymous OP 18h

I’m sorry this reasoning is hilarious. Even if that were the case why does he care what a rando cashier thinks? Cashier probably gonna forget he existed 5 minutes later anyways.

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Anonymous #33 18h

“Tries” .. did he not succeed?

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Anonymous #12 18h

I don’t like it when he does it 😭

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Anonymous #8 17h

Maybe he meant masc lesbian? Idfk 🤦‍♀️

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Anonymous #20 17h

It was my last straw. He was just so immature, two weeks ago his mother gave me a prized family recipe and I made it for him after he had a hard day at work. He proceeded to bitch and moan about how it wasn’t “the same” for the next week on and off.

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Anonymous #20 17h

Just very shallow. This was the straw that broke the camels back 😭

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Anonymous #24 17h

It was the final straw. He’s just been so much worse these past few months. Good riddance honestly…

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Anonymous #32 17h

We lived together and had a combined budget for groceries and toiletries. Technically all my money. He just wouldn’t actually GO OUT and get them when he was buying the other groceries 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous #28 17h

It was my own money. I pay for the groceries and toiletries. He just wouldn’t actually physically take them off the shelves, put them in the cart, and be seen checking out with them alongside the other groceries. It was also the last straw for me, he did more but this pushed me over the edge LOL

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Anonymous #21 17h

Last straw, I was sick of his shit. Just selfish and childish.

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Anonymous OP 17h

There was more to it?

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Anonymous #21 17h

Ohhh yeah. If you want to know the whole shebang feel free to DM 😭

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Anonymous OP 17h

Bet 😭😭😭

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Anonymous #37 17h

I did 😛 and I feel a lot less guilty now that all of you guys seem to be in agreement 😭

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Anonymous #31 17h

THATS WHAT I TOLD HIM. Imagine how much bullshit a cashier endures and sees daily. Why would they bat an eye at pads???

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Anonymous #38 17h

dw girl, he’s gone! Idiot…

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Anonymous #24 17h

please keep it that way baddie you deserve someone who will buy your shit, get you the right stuff, and do it with a smile on his face! my boyfriend literally listen to me cry over the phone wha she my brand changed my applicator! if he wanted to, he would!

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Anonymous OP 16h

Bro the straw would have been that to me like i can’t stand people who can’t even be nice about soemthing you put insane effort into. But kudos to making the correct decision and leaving

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Anonymous #42 8h

Did he ask which ones to get or did he just observe which ones you got and knew from that way?

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Anonymous #21 3h

It is this deep, If he's that insecure about looking gay, he probably is and doesn't need to be in a relationship with her, even if he is or not cuz his mentality is the same as a child

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Anonymous #43 3h

Sounds like he likes men and is insecure about it… no straight man secure in his sexuality is afraid to buy menstrual products, I know zero gay men that a use for them so most people would assume he's buying for a woman in his life. He's so insecure because he probably is…

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Anonymous #48 3h

That could be the case also

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Anonymous #4 3h

either way, that’s still not gay. Wtf do pads or any feminine hygiene products have to do with a man having sex with/ being attracted to another man?

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Anonymous OP 3h

his ignorant ass probably doesn’t even know wtf that term even means…

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Anonymous #31 3h

vagina size is insane 😂😂😭 & a bit adorable lmao

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Anonymous #50 3h

It would be adorable If the men who said that weren't incels

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Anonymous #48 3h

Well by boyfriend is dating me so clearly not an incel 😁

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Anonymous #31 3h

You can still be misogynistic and have a girlfriend… incel and misogynist are essentially the same one is just more sad

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Anonymous #50 3h

Well I mean, it’s the idea of being a trans male if anything, which isn’t technically gay anyways

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Anonymous #48 3h

Your the only one who thinks jokingly asking me “what size vagina” I am so he knows which pad size to get is misogynistic

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Anonymous #31 3h

For the record, extra long. Not cus I have a extra long vagina, I just like more coverage

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Anonymous #31 3h

No he's not joking… and this is common for misogynistic men to say. I've heard it before as a man from other men, and I heard other women tell me men have said it, so it's not just your man making a joke. This is a common issue

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Anonymous #48 3h

Okay you’re just annoying since your claiming my bf was being deadass when he said this despite the fact that you don’t know the guy, and I, the one who was there how he was joking. I’m sorry you’ve had shit experiences with other men but instead of projecting that onto others maybe you should work on that with your therapist

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Anonymous #48 3h

Is the issue him not knowing what size to get so he politely asks so that he can buy her pads when she needs in the future

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Anonymous #1 3h

No, it's a common issue for men to not understand what they want to have sex with. That's the issue. Their man may have been joking, but there are men who aren't and they are the problems.

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Anonymous #48 3h

I mean if you don’t understand but make an effort to understand I don’t see the problem??? Plus this is irrelevant bc op said he’s joking

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Anonymous #31 3h

Maybe understand that the joke your man made has been commonly said by men who expect sex but never want to learn basic understandings on how what they want to stick their dick in works. That's how they view it, something to have sex with, so they don't care to learn basic anatomy and common sense with it. It's common sense that a cotton cylinder isn't gonna be based on the size of the vagina but rather the amount of fluid it can hold

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Anonymous #48 3h

Why are you mansplaining misogyny

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Anonymous #48 3h

I really don’t fucking care mate, lmao

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Anonymous #1 3h

OP didnt say their boyfriend was joking until after the original comment

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Anonymous #1 3h

It's not mansplaining😭

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Anonymous #48 3h

I mean I thought anyone with two brain cells would realize asking me what vagina size I was wasn’t serious. Then you came into existence

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Anonymous #31 3h

You'd think yeah, but men actually ask that…

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Anonymous #48 3h

Okay…I still do not care.

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Anonymous #48 3h

I feel like you’re the incel here

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Anonymous #1 3h

Literally have no evidence as such. You're just saying shit to say shit😭

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Anonymous #48 3h

I mean you made an assumption about someone you never met, I think 1 doing so about you is justified

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Anonymous #31 3h

That's fine by me

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Anonymous #31 2h

I made an assumption because it's commonly said by men. It wasn't originally portrayed as a joke.

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Anonymous #48 2h

Your comments are enough evidence

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Anonymous #1 2h

They aren't but that's cute

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Anonymous #48 2h

And then you kept insisting it wasn’t joke even after I clarified what should be obvious

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Anonymous #31 2h

Wait do you think he’s mad that you won’t be impressed by his awareness and offer to fuck him???

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Anonymous #31 2h

Because he's an exception if he's joking, far more likely he wasnt😭

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Anonymous #1 2h

Maybe though hsving sex over yikyak would be quite a challenge. I’m still learning to astral project me and my extra long vagina through phone screens

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Anonymous #1 2h

I'm gay😭

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Anonymous #31 2h

Is that the right size for optimal astral projection?

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Anonymous #48 2h

You’re making a ton of assumptions based off zero facts. I’ve never heard of a dude seriously asking this question at all ever. The common joke is that the letters on tampons are for a “size” but, again, that’s a joke because it’s common knowledge they are for the flow amount. Educate yourself before making general degrading comments about someone you don’t know as well as an entire gender.

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Anonymous #1 2h

Not sure, let me ask my bf

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Anonymous tinyteerexarms 2h

No men genuinely believe that it's a common joke amongst women and it stemmed from men believing it cuz they're stupid

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Anonymous #48 2h

Again, not true. 😂 I’m a dude.

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Anonymous #31 2h

Even if it isn’t you got this!

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Anonymous #48 2h

I think you and your friends are all just misogynistic and you’re projecting bc you can’t imagine anything else

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Anonymous #1 2h

His reply was “babe arnt you supposed to be working?” 😂

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Anonymous #31 2h

Lmaoooooo

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Anonymous #31 2h

Tell him this is more important than work

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Anonymous #31 2h

I would so ask that 🤣

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