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AITA 1w
Not wanting to be friends with someone when they’re constantly in toxic relationships, cheating (relationships and school), I buy them stuff when they ask but don’t help me with anything (usually things that don’t cost money), parents disrespect my pt1.
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Anonymous 1w

Nta. You don’t owe anyone anything. And that’s not to say you shouldn’t do what you are already doing. But friendships are give and take and if sounds like you are just giving and not receiving anything in return. But also maybe give them the benefit of the doubt and have a conversation and explain how you are feeling first? Maybe they don’t realize it.

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Anonymous 1w

car and time, they only every want to talk about guys (we’re both girls) and more? I know it’s kinda obvious but I feel so guilty about not wanting to be friends anymore bc they don’t have a good home like and are always in bad relationships/friendships

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

home life*

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I want to but this has been a recurring thing for the past few years and each time I try to talk about it she always says I’m doing too much. So now I’m in this weird place where I feel like it’s shitty to just phase out of her life but at the same time whenever I address anything it gets brushed off

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Someone else’s mental health shouldn’t be your burden to hold. Try your best to be a good friend, but if you wish to no longer spend as much time with them you are free to do so. Don’t be insanely cold but also don’t be super friendly. Also don’t keep them guessing. Just think through your interactions and do the right thing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I’d say honestly send a text being like hey, it’s been this way for a while and I’m just not here for it. We are gonna have to be done being friends until you are ready to actually be friends and have conversations where I could have talked about these feelings before it got to this point. Bye, see ya.

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