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I'm very open about my boundaries and my asexuality when dating yet I'M the one ruining things because I don't wanna have sex after so many dates??? Is it not enough to say that I don't like sex and that it's a once in a blue moon kind of thing for me?
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Anonymous 6w

It should be enough… but many people see a sexless relationship as just a friendship…

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Anonymous 6w

You have to just find someone who’s also asexual because relationships won’t work down the line if you and the other person are not sexually compatible

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Anonymous 6w

Hi OP, I am a virgin by choice as a guy. On my neck of the woods my decision had me lose all my guy friends and I have female friends. Many are pretty. I have deep relationships that is more then their boyfriends with them and it seems this is a paradox how this works.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Every day I mourn what could've been if Emily from Bojack Horseman was real and made that asexual dating app 😔

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