AITA on Sidechat | AITA for being upset with my boyfriend that we left his house late? I have class at 10am, told him we had to leave by 9. It’s a 40 minute drive, plus I had to go to my apt to grab my bag, he had to find parking, and the 10min walk. I’m upset, he’s upset.

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AITA 3w

AITA for being upset with my boyfriend that we left his house late? I have class at 10am, told him we had to leave by 9. It’s a 40 minute drive, plus I had to go to my apt to grab my bag, he had to find parking, and the 10min walk. I’m upset, he’s upset.

Anonymous 3w

Was he the reason why you were late or were you also a participant on why you were late and blaming it solely on him

Anonymous 3w

I mean if he was the sole contributor to being late then NTA but you feeling the need to ask online over this v black and white thing, and then not responding to #1 leads me to believe you also played a part in which case no ones necessarily an AH you both just have shit time management

Anonymous 1w

I would say, think back on how many times you’ve made him late for things before. If it’s a lot more, maybe relax a little bit. If you’re always on time for him, then I’d say your feelings are valid. But we’re all human, if he’s usually ready on time, I wouldn’t be too mad but make it known that it wasn’t cool.

Anonymous

#2 1w

I wouldn’t say they have “shit time management” because of this one time they were late. Do you know if OP/bf are usually late?

Anonymous

#3 1w

If its causing an argument its not a one time thing, or, like I said, they have bigger fish to fry in their relationship

Anonymous

#2 1w

That is my thought too, hence me saying in my comment to think back on times she’s made him late. But everybody’s late sometimes, i wouldn’t say someone has shit time management off of my assumption. But I’m pretty sure there’s something else going on behind the scenes too lol

Anonymous

#3 1w

Also, OP didn’t say HOW late they were. Is OP getting mad over 5 minutes late, or 50 minutes late? Big difference there. Was there an exam that day or is it a normal class? Big difference there too