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In store clothes are just as cheap feeling as SHEIN so why would I pay more for cheap mid clothes in person instead of cheap mid clothes online
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Anonymous 3w

Honestly, once you reach adulthood I feel like there is very little need to buy clothes unless they fit a few special categories: new job (requires certain attire), significant weight loss or gain (you can always alter your clothes too!!!), something special (ex, you need a dress for more formal dinners). Otherwise there really is no need for new new new all the time. Your wardrobe does not need to expand drastically except for these cases. You only have one body.

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Anonymous 3w

You can buy neither. You can go to second hand stores and actually look for quality items. Supporting literal slavery to save a buck just to throw it away and turn our planet into a landfill isn’t cute

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Anonymous 3w

Your mindset will never be changed if you don't see buying clothes from sweatshops as a bad thing. We create so much waste and have more then enough clothes, if you need more then prioritize the materials and long lasting quality over what you can buy same day without any real thought.

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Anonymous 3w

Child labor

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I also do as well but I respectfully am not relying on the thrift store to stock my closet and I wouldnt make anyone either

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

And idk what you want me to say the part but why don’t things change systemically

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Then save up and buy clothes made from actual plant and animal fibers, from cruelty free brands.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

So my salary as a teacher barely covers the basics. Are you going to tell me that I should stop being a teacher and get paid more? Who’s going to teach kids if that’s our mentality?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I’m also a teacher. A preschool teacher that makes even less. I’m saying the alternative is supporting literal slavery, and some things are more important than following every fashion trend. Don’t pretend you’re getting “the basics” from SHEIN. SHEIN carries fast fashion slop, stolen indie designs, and plastic knock offs. You don’t need SHEIN. It’s just easier to choose it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I mean sadly you haven’t changed my mind enough. Once I have the money sure but for now I gotta do what makes sense for me.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

…the fact it makes more sense to you to buy slave clothes that’ll last a single wear instead of less money at second hand stores on better clothes that’ll last a life time is actually insane to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I do see it as bad but I don’t see it as reasonable for myself to only rely on thrift stores with varied selection and sizing, or super expensive clothes.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

good quality clothing does not have to be expensive and most is very reasonable priced for someone with a full time job. the main issue is asking yourself do i really need this item or can i save $10-$30 more dollars to buy a better quality nicer and longer lasting version

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

This is the important part ^^^ got actual base pieces that will last forever, you can get them affordably and sustainably. The problem arises when that’s not actually what OP wants, they want the cute microtrend stuff that ONLY exists in cheap turn over (bc let’s be real they manufacture the trends to sell said slop). Using what you have and saving a little until you can afford the better version of the item will always be the best choice imo

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

So do you both only ever buy thrift?? because everything is made in factories with bad conditions now anyway.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Genuinely, yeah. Most if not all of my clothes are from there. All of my jeans are, most of my work pants and blouses, really nice jackets a good bit of dresses. And I’m tall and plus size so it’s really hard to find stuff. Occasionally I’ll go to consignment store if there’s something specific I need, and that’s only because those clothes will end up in the landfill if not bought, and I look for familiar brands with reputable manufacturing processes instead of the “name brand” or random labels

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

About 95% of it yes or good quality companies. Even going on depop or second hand websites will give that same feeling as online shopping. I don't remember the last time I went to the mall or shopped online, the few times I buy new like that is active wear. But the idea that everything is made in factories with bad conditions is exactly what we are trying to tell you is NOT true, buy from local businesses or small companies that care about their quality, employees and resources.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Tbh- not something I really feel like I’m going to do any time soon. I wish I felt more urgency to, but at this point in my life I don’t.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Well you know what they say. Nobody can really force you to care enough to limit the harm your consumption does, all we can do is make sure you’re education on just how much harm it really is.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

True, and my weight fluctuates a lot due to my health. I also have different proportions that make Shopping hard. I’m sure if I tried I could, but it’s exhausting. I just wanna feel good about myself and love myself so I can do other things to change tbe world

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I’d say if it fluctuates that much/offen something you could do is separate your clothes by size and when you aren’t in that size range you could always put the extras in a tote and if you get back to that size you can take them back out. Then you aren’t getting rid of and buying a new set every time you change size!

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