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AITA for not wanting the same shit my parents want on my birthday? I don’t want to see anyone bc I get off work from a hard job. They want to go eat polish food (we don’t eat that?) but it’s a Friday so I can’t even say I want sushi (they hate it)
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Anonymous 5w

No, its YOUR birthday and it sounds like they're using your day as an excuse to eat out and get what they want

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Anonymous 5w

NTA, my parents used to try to do the same shit until i started speaking up for myself . it’s your special day .. im sorry they do that :/

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Anonymous 5w

2 years ago I crashed out bc all I wanted a sushi not some fuck ass pasta my mom makes like Midwestern goulash without the bland ground beef. No I had to settle for yea a “fancy” corporation chain restaurant and eat the same thing I get always but not really special to me. I didn’t want it. It’s been the same since bc they don’t try to know me

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Anonymous 5w

My parents just ask me if I want to go out to eat for my birthday. But it doesn’t have to be ON my birthday.

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Anonymous 5w

NTA it’s your birthday you get what you want all day!!!! Also happy b-day! today is mine too! Twinsies!

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Anonymous 4w

Nta is j want sushi and a good show and a seltzer after a long day at work and they should respect that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Or that I planned a whole trip by myself bc for years none of my friends wanted to hang out or come celebrate or if I asked months in advance it would be a no for traveling even if I pushed my birthday off by a whole month to align with their spring breaks - they had other plans made after I asked every time. We are no longer friends. So I’m solo on it. Had to ‘disappoint’ my dad bc he said my carry on WOULD be this fuck ass bag he has like ?? Hell no ?? I’ll use my own shit that’s cute

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY!! Mines on the 6th and I’m taking my first ever trip I do for myself I’m going to Maui!! Took abt half a years worth of work/saving right to have it all settled 🥰🥰 what did you do! What did you get or who did you see?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Hell yeah go get that trip on!!!! Also thank you! I treated myself an went to a movie and the bar since it was my 21st. My friend spent the night with me

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Girlll lucky you my 21st was the the 20worst

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I think 21st b-days just end up being bad😭

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